When Charlie was 21 years old, she had a personal awakening, she began a journey of self discovery and personal development. 

Part of the foundations of that journey included psychotherapy and she began unravelling the dysfunctional legacy from her family of upbringing.  

She'd always been highly sexual, and part of what she learned in therapy was that having sex the way she had been having sex was sex and love addiction.  She was told that it wasn't healthy for her, or her partners.  She was taught that the healthy way to have deep, emotional intimacy was monogamy, commitment to a life long relationship with someone you love. 

So, for nearly a quarter of a century, she diligently did her personal development work, to make herself into the most loving human being possible.   She dedicated herself to improve her communications, emotional intelligence, taking responsibility for her "stuff" and not projecting her own issues onto her romantic partners.

In 2012 she thought she'd found "the one", the one who had the qualities which complimented her personality, the one who loved her so much, who was committed to developing their forever relationship.  So that together, they could support each others' individual happiness, health and wealth.  They formed a "team", they became family.  The most important people in the world to each other...

Suddenly in May 2019, this relationship came to an end, without explanation, her partner decided he no longer wanted to be with her. 

This was devasting, she was grief stricken.  For 6 weeks she spent hours a day sobbing her heart out.

In Jan 2020 she was done crying, and revived her online dating profile....

In Feb 2020 she had sex for the first time in over a year, and realised it was the first time she'd had DEEPLY satisfying sex in SEVEN YEARS!!!

She made a decision that she was never going to sacrifice deeply satisfying sex ever again....

25 years after she'd begun her personal development journey and commitment to her self to become the most loving human being possible, she finally stopped compromising who she was.  She stopped being "A good girl". 

This is Charlie's story of how she reconnected with parts of herself she'd locked away, in the deepest darkest depths of her soul, so deeply that she'd forgotten that these were parts of who she is.

#BeMoreCharlie